Tuesday, August 25, 2020

I am married to a schizophrenia sufferer... he is on medication but constantly criticizes me about everything?

Donte Liversedge: agree with him on everything

Ronald Moehr: Leave. NOW. And whatever you do don't get pregnant.I was raised in a home with a paranoid schizophrenic father. It gets worse when you have children because he will be jealous of any attention given to anyone but him. Use the next time he acuses you of something to go.Yes, I know it is not his fault that he is delusional. But it is not yours either. And God Forbid it is not a child's. Bottom line. If you choose to stay do not bear children....Show more

Norma Marsalis: marriage councilor go on the Dr. Phil and Dr. G medical examiner shows to ask them if you can visit Oprah.

Craig Virani: Talk to his pyschiatrist, she/he may increase his dosage or give him something else to ease him up a bit. I know the goal is always to decrease the amount of meds one needs to take, but if his odd behavior is starting to flare up, it may be for the best. My brother is schizophrenic, so I know that the anti-psych! otic medications can turn people into complete zombies, incapable of connecting with people, but I suppose that is slightly better than the horror they experience without medication....Show more

Ermelinda Stalnaker: Nothing tells that this behavior is due to the disease, my brother suffers from schizophrenia and he is just lovely. They have a personality like everybody, not all their thoughts and acts are "schizophrenic", it's just a part of what they are. I'm sad that even families give such a bad reputation to this disease. Don't forget that so many women and families live hell with a "mentally healthy" person.

Nell Dipiero: Hi, has he tried a gluten-free diet? There is a link between gluten and schizophrenia and depression. I am no longer depressed thanks to a gluten-free diet. If he decides to try it, do it one hundred per cent for two weeks or you might not see an improvement. The 'gluten doctors' have a good blog where you can ask them questions and they a! re very helpful. Also, you might need to cut out dairy, as som! e people need to cut out both in order to see an improvement. For your feelings and unhappiness, you could try www.thework.com, which is a free cognitive therapy. I hope you find something helpful and I wish you both peace and happiness....Show more

Ambrose Mumma: You know I agree, it's not even the presidents responsibility. And even if it was we can't do anything because America is broke. We just spent trillions of dollars the past few years we can't spend another dime, and I guarantee you if the feds got involved they would be up in DC bitching at each other all day long and eventually drafting another stimulus errr I mean clean up bill which will no doubt cost BILLIONS. If the feds want to get involved first slap BP with that 13+ billion dollar fine, and tell them to hit the road and never to drill in our waters again for being such incompetent morons....Show more

Sol Bayn: My father was diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia, but refused the diagnosis and th! erefore didn't take any medication for it. When he married my mother, they had three children (I'm the eldest of the three). He was a loving husband and father who meant well. Always looked out for us. Whenever he earned money from work he would buy a freddo frog for my sisters and I, a caramello koala for mum, and give the rest of the pay to mum. He cooked meals when he could, helped with garden maintenance, told other people how proud he was of us, prayed with us, looked after us when we were unwell etc. However at times he would accuse us of plotting against him (for example hiding things, writing in secret codes, sabotaging etc). He also believed people were spying on the family and him (he said he saw someone photographing us from a window during dinner time, saw someone hiding behind an outside BBQ table, said there was evidence to suggest people were listening in to our phone conversations, he would examine tyre tracks etc.). He would also claim to know people on te! levision (for example he said "that was Dr Watts from Kalamunda who fix! ed my arm" but when I looked at the opening credits it said Shane Porteous) and if I told him otherwise he would get really defensive. Sometimes when people would challenge his beliefs, he found it difficult to express himself, and he would turn to violence and shout, but I don't think he meant to hurt anyone, it was just because he couldn't express himself properly. There were times when my parents would argue and nearly divorced, but they didn't divorce, they just sought marriage counselling and help from friends. At the time it was happening nobody, not even my mother was aware about the paranoid schizophrenia diagnosis. I grew up becoming increasingly confused, misunderstood and unhappy because of his behaviour. It wasn't until I later found out from a close family friend, that he had been diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia that his behaviour was able to make more sense to me and become easier to handle. If you love your husband and are considering having children wi! th him, I would suggest you seek some counselling from a therapist to learn ways to communicate more effectively with each other. Your husband may be reluctant to attend sessions because the paranoid schizophrenia makes him feel he's always right and therefore nothing is wrong. If you do end up having children, please be open to them about the paranoid schizophrenia, so they can understand his behaviour and not take it too personally. Constantly show them that you love them and remember actions speak louder than words. I still loved my father, and know he loved me too in his own way....Show more

Cómo lidiar con tu amigo que se lleva a tu novio o novia

Cómo lidiar con tu amigo que se lleva a tu novio o novia

Demuestra a los que no te aprecian que no los necesitas para tener una vida maravillosa! Sin embargo, no reprima sus emociones tampoco. Si no estás bien, dilo. No finjas que todo está de perlas cuando no lo está. Eso podría causarte más problemas. Simplemente siga la corriente y tome cada asunto como se presente. Pero en realidad, no te preocupes por tu amigo o tu ex. Si son tan descuidados como para herirte así, no valen la pena. ¡Sigue adelante!

Hable con su amigo sobre las reglas. Esto puede sonar un poco raro o débil ahora mismo, pero no querrás ver a esos dos besándose frente a ti. Usted establece la línea divisoria para ellos a su alrededor, si todavía es amigo del que se llevó a su novio o novia. Si ya no sois amigos, todavía podéis pedirles que no hagan alarde de su ! traición a vuestro alrededor.

Deja de llorar, no valen tus lágrimas. Habla con tus padres. Ellos pueden ayudarte. Probablemente también han pasado por rupturas difíciles y saben qué tipo de helado es su sabor favorito! Además, habla con tus otros amigos. Tal vez no te entienden a ti o a tus decisiones, pero están tratando de entender y están escuchando. Además, pueden quejarse el uno al otro sobre los dos nuevos tortolitos…. Incluso habla con el consejero de tu escuela. Siempre es bueno tener gente con la que hablar y que te apoye. Aunque será difícil, te darás cuenta de que ninguno de los dos vale la pena. Si fueran amigos de verdad, no habrían hecho lo que hicieron.

Considere la posibilidad de hablar con su amigo. ¿Has hablado con alguno de ellos desde entonces? Si no, habla con el que fue tu amigo primero, no con el novio o la novia, sino con el amigo (habla afuera para que no sea incómodo salir de su casa o echarlos de la tuya). Es probable ! que te enojes con tu novia o novio, pero tu amigo sabía que l! o amabas y que deberías haber podido irte por tu bien. Así que habla con tu amigo, pregúntale por qué y averigua si siguen siendo amigos. Lo más probable es que el amigo que se llevó a tu novio o novia no fuera un amigo de verdad; de lo contrario, no habrían llevado a tu novio o novia, sino que habrían encontrado a otra persona con quien salir.

Comenzar una nueva vida. Esta es una lección de vida. Ahora mismo estás rodando lentamente por ese gran iceberg y es la primera vez que te bajas que puedes levantarte y escalar esa montaña una vez más! Pero esta vez tienes más equipo para agarrarte a la montaña y no caerte!

Piensa en por qué sucedió. Escribe lo que se te ocurra. No pienses: «¿Qué podría haber hecho para cambiar que ahora están juntos?» ¡Has hecho lo que has podido! La dura verdad del asunto es que a él o a ella no le gustaba el verdadero tú y nunca deberías cambiar quién eres por otra persona. Es importante mantenerse fiel a sí! mismo. Algún día encontrarás a alguien que ame a tu verdadero yo.

Monday, August 24, 2020

Is your heart a secret garden and the walls are very high?

Christiane Cattano: My heart is a secret garden, but the walls are just made out of fluffy clouds.. :)People who take the time and are honest, can get through the clouds.No, but really.. I think everyone's true feelings are a secret.. they aren't visible.. but I'm open for people.. I usually talk a lot, but it takes someone I trust to share my deepest feelings with.. I've learned not to let just anyone make a big part of my life, because if you give your heart away too quickly.. you can get hurt.....Show more

Foster Padgette:

Shaun Rapkowicz: They're higher than I'd like, but they have helped too.

Peter Lapoint: u cant help. The blind cant lead the blind. My heart is much more then a collection of romantic poetic words. My heart actualy means something.

Lu Tiner: That gives me the impression of a "high maintenance" girl.Not someone I would want to keep company with.

Coleman Coscia: My heart is a very secret garden that is probably identical ! to a lot of other very secret gardens.Hi Taefield. I appreciate it.

Delora Struzzi: You're pushy, not everybody likes it. Some like to be pushed for they don't move. But I wouldn't like you push me. ie; I know what I'm doing, what I want in life, I know how to get it.Tanks.

Chastity Doderer: Would it be okay if I say "Pluralism (in art) has to do with all these different theories and ideas working together without having one being more important then the other"? Can you guys please explain me what Pluralism is in simplest form that a high school student can understand? Thank you soo soo MUCH!

Miguel Densley: Definitely. A faint soul will never win this garden.

Lolita Deschamp: It's an open field with many bridges.

Shamika Schools: your an ******

Stan Conley: Yes society is very shallow,but concerning the "avatar" thing, well, there wasn't much to work with,these things can never show you a true person's "real self", but if you look closel! y you can find out a lot about people by what they choose for ! extras--and of course, a screen name speaks volumes.

Hai Biggart: My heart is an outdoor toilet that won't flush properly.

Raelene Cunnick: I know what you mean, people don't like it when you show your real picture, and others wonder why people have to hide them selves by using different pictures..i don't see why it even matters.

Barrett Zheng: lol-yes

Kris Otuafi: Hugh, thanks very much for missing my point completly!!

Marco Stolarz: yes... it is and the walls reach up to the sky!It wasn't... but once upon a time, someone broke into the garden and destroyed all my cherished trees..

Lewis Ranft: I would not say shallow, but unrealistic. Most people probably look nothing like their avatars.

Ronny Dorge: Maybe your garden is helping you to get high. ;)Living life loving....Show more

Irving Jordahl: basically, I always ask questions that people don't want to answer, like I can tell they be lying but I ask them in a nice way

Virgil Menefee: Pluralism in art refers to the nature of artforms and artists as diverse. The cultural context of art is all encompassing in its respect for the art of the world's cultures. Inclusion of individuals of differing ethnicities, genders, ideologies, abilities, ages, religions, economic status and educational levels is valued. Pluralism honors differences within and between equitable groups while seeing their commonalities.

Joey Mekeel: It's not really "shallow" per se. The avatar is supposed to represent you, or who you want to be, or who you want others to see... so, you are putting that image out there.That's like calling someone shallow for believing a person who uses racial slurs is racist.

Lanita Reichman: ...........because we have the tendency to take a person's avatar too seriously?

Shelley Stevens: You should be a detective. You could also hose 'em a little bit.

Marvel Mcaulay: Well, the fact that you have the impression that ! anybody but you knows wtf you're talking about when you say you're push! ing people "to the limit" is indicative of a huge lack of empathy. I guess you also believe that there is only one limit, "the" limit. This shows that you are one dimensional and incapable of creative thought. Finally, your claim that it is inadvertent behaviour is vastly self-serving. Ever heard "fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me" ? Well, push someone to the limit once and oops but do it again and it is obviously a choice you arer making. Since there is a pattern in your behaviour, I'd say you have to evaluate why you are so massively insecure that you feel it is appropriate to push people at all, let alone to the limit (whatever that means...) Low self esteem and low empathy, per'aps....Show more

Weldon Totaro: No, not at all. My gate is wide open.

Malcom Bourek: people seem shallow because that is all we care to see. we don't go diving into one's soul or reasoning. We see only the tip of the iceberg and we are judged by it.I'm so! rry but, I ain't going to be "diving" into your inner depths anytime soon.

Donte Liversedge: i kinda look like my avatar, inasmuch as i'm lacking most of my hair, but i'm fatter and not as handsome also. and my wife says i'm somewhat of a horse's butt, however they did not have one of those available as an avatar that i saw or perhaps i'd have used it instead of the good looking fellow with the shiney head.

Debora Rinderer: The walls were up high. The people that break it down are usually the ones who bring them back up again, for being manipulative.

Burt Cheevers: 1) You are uptight2) You are overbearing3) You are egotisticalIts not all bad though. The world needs people like you.

Francis Stickle: Swamp, no need for walls.

Beau Starcevic: Philosophy is the wrong forum. Oops. Try the Art forum, consult a dictionary, or perhaps ask in the Words & Wordplay forum.

Bob Pucella: It is for most people. very few is my heart an open garden and th! ere are no walls.

Hans Sachetti: yes i think so , and sometimes y! ou met people as like as they was they didn't change in any time .... and also we have tendency to take person's avatar too seriously sometimes .

Barton Sease: Yes i do. And one should always treat what their teachers teach them as "shallow",too; for if you dont, the probably is that you will "have-a-feeling" that something you learned is also shallow,but you wont know what. (So i am saying that "shallow-ness"is a property of the results of bad teaching;and then even No worthwhile "teaching" either!)...Show more

Alexis Reyer: Please elaborate, do you annoy people or trying to help themimportant fact to answer your question.

Alonso Crehan: Yes and it is and always will be but with time and patience I'll allow some people to clip over the walls.

How can I be more... compassionate for teen moms?? I really want to... try.. maybe lol?  

How can I be more... compassionate for teen moms?? I really want to... try.. maybe lol?  

answers 0:Ok I am honestly NOT a bad person, I don't have a lack of good character or whatever... I just REALLY want a baby... and i know I'm like 20 and young and should be having fun or whatever but... I'm not so yeah. I don't... hate teen parents, I just think they get a little too much credit, which is fine I guess but I guess I kind of just wish I would have gotten pregnant at 15 or 16, I know its not a good thing to wish on yourself but.. I'm 20 now so its not like it'll happen lol and I could still have an unexpected pregnancy but the problem with that now is I probably won't get nearly as much help (or sympathy) as I would get if I was younger because as an adult you should "know these things" like my parents would say. Anyways I just want to... not b! e such a ***** lol...Show moreanswers 1:At 15 or 16, the average teenager still has a lot to learn about the world, and about controlling impulses and desires. If a 15-year-old gets pregnant, she'll have to spend some time out of school due to delivery, and it may delay or end her high school career, depriving her of a high school diploma. There are precious few jobs available to anyone without a high school diploma. Also, a 15-year-old will have zero or very little work experience and little to no marketable job skills, plus that 15-year-old will only be able to work certain hours to comply with federal labor laws, which makes them less attractive to potential employers.An average 20-year-old has a high school diploma, some college classes under her belt, and usually a year or two of work experience. Maturity levels at 15 and at 20 are very, very different. At 20, you should be about halfway through a four-year degree, or you could have completed a career technical trainin! g program for nursing, medical assisting, dental hygienist, et! c.I would argue that the average 15-year-old needs a lot more help than the average 20-year-old when facing an unexpected pregnancy. But why are you so resentful? Why do you feel like you should get lots of "help and sympathy"? You're legally an adult, with a high school diploma and the means to support a child, so why should you be entitled to lots of help from Mommy and Daddy? And forget sympathy, sister. No one truly feels a whole lot of sympathy for teen mothers. I would know, my mother had me at 17 and both of us were subjected to rude comments for quite a few years. More often than not, the average John Q Public will condemn a teen mother before feeling sympathetic toward her. If you are feeling "resentful" because you feel like you wouldn't get help raising a baby...either abstain from sex or use two methods of birth control (i.e. the pill and condoms with a spermicidal lubricant). And yes, a 20-year-old absolutely should know better than a 15-year-old....answers 2:I! think that you should step back and not listen to YOUR perception of this so-called credit that you think teen mom's get. The important thing is, even if they get this credit you speak of, this credit does not outweigh:1. The end of life as they know it2 Finishing high school is ridiculously challenging. 3. For most, college is simply out of the question.4. The boy is often out of the picture. Young mom's are often lonely (because most eligible bachelors don't a girl with "baggage" or a ready made family)5. Teens don't have the skills to take care of themselves and suddenly, they have to take care of themselves and a baby.6. They are often ostracized by family. Relationships with parents and friends are never the same. Some end up homeless because the family refuse to deal with the shame that comes to the family.I highly recommend that you do not get pregnant. I recommend that you look for ways to boost your self esteem. There is something that you can do (activities, s! ocial, work, volunteering) that can steer you away from your misguided ! sense of what will make you whole. At minimum, sit down and talk to a teen mom at length. She'll give you the real story....answers 3:my mom had me when she was 19 and she was married when she was married at 18 but you know the most love you will get from anyone is from your husband if your married so i suggest get married have a good job and the have children but olny with your husband because teen pregnancy is terrible and you think there's more love well your DEAD WRONGanswers 4:Omg Issues! Your so far off it hey, Teen mums dont get it easy at all, they get looked down on judged and people assume your just a sh!t mother who dumps her kids off on other people and goes out. You did not miss out on much trust me. Its not what MTV makes it out to beanswers 5:I am 15 with a 6 month old baby. I know that i am mature for my age, and a good mother. Teen moms don't necessarily get more credit. We get looked down on for being so young, we get talked about. It all depends on the! support you have. With me, the father of the baby and I are engaged and getting married when I turn 16. It is better to have help, which i was fortunate enough to have. If you want to have a baby, then go ahead, but make sure you will have a man in the picture. And me being a teen, my parents expect me to do it on my own. Of course they help me if i ask, but i never do because i like knowing that i can do everything for my son on my own with his dad. It doesn't matter how old you are when you become a parent if you are a good parent.Good luck!...answers 6:Saw your question and just had to share. My sister bought Pregnancy Without Pounds for me when I learned I was expecting. I have to admit my initial reaction was Wow, is she trying to say I'm fat?! But as I started the program, I realized there was some great stuff. It answered my questions about nutrition, cravings (Yes. Some of them were real and others were because my food intake was off for the day.), and exercis! es I could safely do for me and my baby. Now I have a beautiful baby b! oy and my pre-pregnancy weight just a few months after delivery. It worked for me. Who knows? It may work for you, too. It's worth taking a look.Blessings...answers 7:Wow. Teen moms are judged left and right, and dont get much support.answers 8:"but the problem with that now is I probably won't get nearly as much help (or sympathy)"save that money u wouldve used for a kid and use it on a doctor. have a kid because u will take care of it and love it....sometimes u dont get help.answers 9:Teen moms dont get more help i am a teen mom. Im 19 and pregnant with my second (no not wh ore its with the same guy and we got married) and i get looked down on so much. I dont get to live a nomal life. I have a full time job, i wasnt able to finish school when my friends did, i have to pay my own bills, i cant go out,ect. Im not complaining because i love my kids buts its not fair to say we get more help or sympathy its the complete opposite. even when i walk in the store people give m! e the nastiest looks because how young i look. its hard and i have done it all MYSELF with no help at all from anyone!...

Sunday, August 23, 2020

Comment commencer à pleurer avec l’enduit à la vapeur

Comment commencer à pleurer avec l’enduit à la vapeur

Froissez-vous le visage et faites des pleurs, comme des sanglots, des reniflements et des hoquets. Hurlez pour un effet encore plus grand.

Vous pouvez vous le procurer dans une pharmacie ou dans un supermarché comme Safeway ou Walgreens (même le magasin à 99 cents peut en offrir).

Les larmes couleront instantanément sur votre visage. Essayez de cligner des yeux pour encourager cela !

Attendre environ 30 secondes, puis essuyer avec un mouchoir en papier.

Prendre une petite quantité, et frotter uniformément sous les yeux dans le secteur général que les cercles foncés et les sacs peuvent former.

Saturday, August 22, 2020

What company do you choose for tree care and landscaping?

Floy Fague: There are lots of them out there, but based on my experience before i recommend http://www.urban-forest.co.uk Because my nephew used the service from them last time and i am impressed by their design and service. They offer complete services from tree services, site clearance, landscaping, stump removal, reports and surveys. They can also supply logs, mulch, woodchip, topsoil and trees for planting.

Cómo pintar el revestimiento de vinilo

Cómo pintar el revestimiento de vinilo

Aunque el revestimiento vinílico es una alternativa práctica al revestimiento de madera, aún necesita ser cuidado. Después de un tiempo, tendrá que ser repintado, o puede haber reparaciones de pintura de parches que sea necesario hacer. Cualquiera que sea la razón, este artículo le ayudará a preparar y pintar el revestimiento de vinilo (o aluminio), dejando su casa como nueva.

Verifique que el revestimiento esté en buenas condiciones antes de considerar pintar. La pintura sobre revestimientos que tienen defectos existentes simplemente retrasa el trabajo futuro para remediar los problemas. Además, la pintura sobre los defectos empeorará el problema si es necesario reemplazar o reparar los revestimientos primero. Arregle los problemas primero, para evitar perder tiempo y dinero.

Aplique una imprimación a los revestimientos. Al pintar ! un revestimiento de aluminio o vinilo, se debe usar un imprimador para asegurarse de que la pintura se adhiera a la superficie. Use una imprimación acrílica para pegar. Esto asegurará que la capa de acabado se mantenga correctamente y, mejor aún, ayudará a que la pintura dure más tiempo. Lo último que quieres es que tu pintura comience a pelarse después de unos meses y tener que empezar de nuevo. ¡Aplica esa imprimación!

Lave el revestimiento en secciones. Utilice una mezcla de agua y detergente estándar para eliminar toda la grasa y la suciedad. Si agrega blanqueador de cloro a esta mezcla, también eliminará cualquier moho o moho que pueda estar creciendo en la superficie de las paredes.

Aplique una capa de acabado acrílico. Elija la mejor calidad que pueda permitirse; su casa es su escaparate después de todo. Al elegir la pintura, usted encontrará que tiene una variedad de acabados para elegir; sin embargo, tenga en cuenta que los acabados de a! lto brillo pueden reflejar demasiado el sol. Para obtener el m! ejor efecto, se recomienda un acabado de cáscara de huevo. Los acabados de cáscara de huevo todavía contienen algo de brillo, pero en cantidades muy reducidas y por lo tanto no reflejan el sol tanto como el acabado de alto brillo. Como ventaja adicional, esta superficie tiende a ser más fácil de mantener limpia.

Aplique la pintura. Hay tres métodos posibles para aplicar la pintura: Pintura en aerosol, pinceles o rodillos. Aunque el método elegido depende de su habilidad para pintar y de sus preferencias personales, lo mejor es dejar la pulverización en manos de alguien con experiencia. Si es la primera vez, le resultará más fácil trabajar con una brocha o un rodillo. Incluso en este caso, hay que elegir entre una aplicación en altura más rápida y sencilla del rodillo o un acabado del pincel que requiere más tiempo y es más limpio.

Coloque lonas, sábanas viejas u otras cubiertas debajo de sus áreas de trabajo. La pintura terminará salpicando en! la superficie del suelo, haciendo más trabajo para usted si estropea otras superficies. Cubra todas las cosas que no quiera pintar y que no se puedan mover, como bajantes, postes de puertas, grifos/ grifos, etc. Use sábanas o trapos viejos y bandas elásticas o cordeles para cubrir estos artículos.

Primero cepille el revestimiento. Use un cepillo o escoba suave para exteriores con un mango largo y uno más pequeño para esquinas y áreas difíciles. Pase el cepillo o la escoba sobre el revestimiento para recoger telarañas, restos de insectos, hojas muertas, etc. Limpie regularmente la escoba para que no raspe la superficie del revestimiento al volver a aplicarla en una nueva área.

Trabaje su camino alrededor de la casa en secciones. Deje que cada capa de sección se seque, luego vuelva a aplicar otra capa. Por lo general, dos capas son suficientes, pero tendrá que juzgarlo con sus propios ojos, dependiendo de su ubicación, clima, la pintura utilizada y s! u color final cuando se seca.

Revise su trabajo después. Siempre! habrá algunas áreas que necesitan un retoque. También recuerde revisar las áreas que «dejó para más tarde» porque eran incómodas, como el revestimiento detrás de las tuberías, lámparas, plantas o grifos.

Enjuague la mezcla de limpieza y las partículas restantes. Una vez que una sección del revestimiento esté limpia, enjuague los residuos de los agentes de limpieza antes de pasar a una nueva sección. Antes de pintar, deje secar mucho tiempo, para que la superficie sea apta para pintar.

Verifique si hay defectos. Algunas de las cosas típicas que hay que tener en cuenta y tratar incluyen: